
This strawberry cream cheese frosting has completely changed how I frost vanilla cakes and cupcakes because it adds this incredible fruity dimension without being overly sweet or artificial tasting. The combination of tangy cream cheese, real strawberry jam, and just enough powdered sugar creates frosting that's creamy, flavorful, and stable enough for piping beautiful swirls. I discovered this recipe when I was tired of plain vanilla buttercream but wanted something more interesting than chocolate, and now it's my go-to frosting for spring and summer celebrations.
My daughter loves helping make this because she gets to pick which strawberry jam we use and add the food coloring drop by drop until we reach the perfect shade of pink. Watching her carefully count drops and stir has become one of our favorite baking rituals.
Ingredients You'll Need
- Full-fat brick cream cheese (cold, straight from the refrigerator, 8 ounces): Must be full-fat and cold; Neufchatel or low-fat won't work properly for this recipe
- Unsalted butter (room temperature, about half a cup or 8 tablespoons): Needs to be soft and spreadable; unsalted lets you control the salt level
- Strawberry jam or preserves (about half a cup): Choose thick jam with minimal added sugar; Smucker's Natural works perfectly, and avoid preserves with large fruit chunks if piping
- Powdered sugar (about 1.5 cups): Adds sweetness and body without needing excessive amounts since the jam already has sugar
- Almond extract (just a quarter teaspoon): Enhances the strawberry flavor beautifully; vanilla works if you don't like almond
- Salt (just a pinch): Cuts the sweetness and makes all the flavors more pronounced
- Red food coloring (optional, gel or liquid): Intensifies the pink color since jam alone only tints it subtly
Step-by-Step Instructions
Start with cold cream cheese and soft butter
- Step 1:
- Place your brick of full-fat cream cheese directly from the refrigerator into a large mixing bowl, breaking it into a few large chunks to help it mix easier. Add two tablespoons of your room temperature butter to the bowl and begin beating with an electric hand mixer on medium speed. The cold cream cheese and room temperature butter combination seems counterintuitive, but this is the secret to achieving proper consistency, so trust the process even though it looks lumpy at first.
Gradually add remaining butter while beating
- Step 2:
- Continue adding the remaining butter two tablespoons at a time, beating well after each addition and taking your time to let each portion incorporate before adding more. As you keep mixing and adding butter, you'll see the lumps of cold cream cheese gradually disappear and the mixture transform into something smooth and creamy. Don't worry if it looks curdled or lumpy at first; just keep beating and it will come together beautifully. The room temperature butter helps soften and smooth out the cold cream cheese without making everything too warm and soft.
Add jam, extract, salt, and food coloring
- Step 3:
- Once your cream cheese and butter mixture is completely smooth with no lumps remaining, add your strawberry jam, almond extract, salt, and a few drops of red food coloring if you want a more vibrant pink color. Beat everything together on medium speed just until the jam is completely incorporated and distributed evenly throughout, which takes about thirty seconds to one minute. The frosting will lighten in color as you mix and take on a pretty pale pink hue from the jam, deepening if you added food coloring.
Mix in powdered sugar carefully
- Step 4:
- Add your powdered sugar all at once to the bowl, then mix on the lowest speed possible initially to prevent a cloud of sugar from exploding all over your kitchen. Once the sugar starts incorporating, you can increase to medium speed, but only mix until the powdered sugar completely disappears and the frosting looks uniform. Stop mixing immediately at this point because over-mixing after adding powdered sugar makes cream cheese frosting stringy, gooey, and unstable due to the starch content. The frosting should be thick, smooth, and hold its shape when you lift the beaters.
Chill briefly if needed for piping
- Step 5:
- Assess the consistency of your frosting by lifting some on a spatula or spoon to see if it holds its shape or droops. If you're spreading it on a cake, you can use it immediately as is. If you're piping it onto cupcakes and it seems slightly soft, transfer the bowl to the refrigerator for ten to twenty minutes to firm up the butter, which happens quickly especially in a metal bowl. After chilling, the frosting should be perfectly pipeable with enough structure to hold decorative swirls without melting or sliding.

I made the mistake once of using room temperature cream cheese because I thought the recipe must have been wrong, and my frosting was so soft it literally slid off my cupcakes. Now I always use cold cream cheese exactly as written, and it works perfectly every single time.
Understanding Why Jam Works Better
Fresh strawberry purée might seem like it would create more authentic strawberry flavor, but it actually creates multiple problems that jam solves completely. Fresh purée is mostly water, so adding enough for significant flavor would make your frosting so runny you'd need to add pounds of powdered sugar to stabilize it, resulting in frosting that's cloyingly sweet and gritty. Jam is concentrated fruit that's been cooked down to remove excess moisture and intensify flavor, so a small amount delivers big strawberry taste. The cooking process also develops deeper, more complex fruit flavor than raw berries have. The thick consistency of jam means you can add a substantial amount without compromising the frosting's structure at all.
Making Your Own Strawberry Reduction
If you prefer making everything from scratch or have fresh strawberries you want to use, cooking them down into a thick reduction works beautifully in this frosting. Purée fresh strawberries in a blender, then cook them with a bit of sugar and lemon juice over medium heat, stirring frequently for forty to fifty minutes until they reduce to a thick, jammy consistency. The cooking time is crucial because you need most of the water to evaporate, concentrating the flavor and creating that syrupy thickness. Frozen strawberries work too but release more liquid, so they take longer to reduce. Adding a tablespoon of cornstarch mixed with the sugar helps it thicken faster. Cool your reduction completely before using it in the frosting.
The Cold Cream Cheese Secret
Using cold cream cheese straight from the refrigerator seems illogical when making frosting, but it's actually the key to achieving perfect consistency every time. Room temperature cream cheese combined with room temperature butter creates frosting that's too soft and needs refrigeration before you can even use it. Cold cream cheese combined with room temperature butter allows the butter to gradually soften the cream cheese as you beat it, creating ideal consistency without ever getting too warm. The butter's room temperature state provides enough warmth and malleability to smooth everything out without making it soupy. This temperature differential is what professional bakers use to create stable cream cheese frostings.
Avoiding Over-Mixing Pitfalls
Cream cheese frosting has a specific point where it goes from perfect to ruined, and recognizing that moment prevents frustration. You can beat the cream cheese and butter together quite vigorously to get them completely smooth, and that extended mixing actually helps create better texture. But once you add the powdered sugar, the rules change dramatically. Powdered sugar contains cornstarch as an anti-caking agent, and when you over-mix that starch with the cream cheese, it activates and creates a gooey, stringy mess. Mix just until the sugar disappears completely, then stop immediately. If you accidentally over-mix, refrigerating usually helps firm it back up somewhat, though the texture is never quite as perfect.
Customizing Flavor and Color
While strawberry is classic and delicious, this frosting formula works with virtually any fruit jam or preserves you prefer. Raspberry jam creates gorgeous pink frosting with slightly tart flavor that's sophisticated and less sweet. Blueberry preserves make beautiful purple frosting perfect for summer celebrations. Peach preserves create peachy-orange frosting ideal for warm-weather desserts. Blackberry jam gives you deep purple frosting with complex berry flavor. You can even use multiple jams for swirled, marbled effects. The amount of food coloring you add determines how vibrant the final color is, with jam alone creating subtle, natural tones and added coloring creating bold, saturated shades.
Uses Beyond Cupcakes and Cakes
While this strawberry cream cheese frosting is obviously perfect for topping vanilla or chocolate cupcakes and frosting layer cakes, it's versatile enough for many other applications. Spreading it between graham crackers creates simple but delicious sandwich cookies. Using it as filling for whoopie pies adds fruity flavor to classic chocolate cakes. Piping it onto sugar cookies transforms plain cookies into something special. Spreading it on cinnamon rolls instead of traditional icing creates a fruity breakfast treat. Even using it as a dip for fresh strawberries or other fruit makes an elegant dessert that takes seconds to prepare.
Storage and Stability
Cream cheese frosting requires refrigeration because it contains dairy that can spoil at room temperature, but understanding storage details helps you plan ahead. Frosted cakes and cupcakes should be refrigerated and will keep for three to four days covered loosely with plastic wrap or in an airtight container. Let them sit at room temperature for fifteen to twenty minutes before serving so the frosting softens slightly and tastes better. Unfrosted frosting stores in an airtight container in the fridge for up to a week or freezes for up to three months. Thaw frozen frosting in the refrigerator overnight, then let it come to room temperature and give it a quick stir before using.

This strawberry cream cheese frosting has become one of those recipes I make constantly throughout spring and summer because it transforms simple vanilla cupcakes into something special that feels fancy and seasonal. The combination of being genuinely flavorful with real fruit taste, beautifully pink and pretty, stable enough for decorating, and versatile enough for multiple uses means it's earned its permanent spot in my frosting rotation, and once you taste how much better it is than artificial strawberry frosting from the store, you'll never go back to anything else.
Frequently Asked Questions
- → Can I use frozen strawberries instead of jam?
- No, this recipe needs strawberry jam or preserves. Fresh or frozen berries have too much water and will make the frosting too runny.
- → Why does my frosting look lumpy?
- Make sure your cream cheese is cold and butter is at room temperature. Add the butter slowly and mix well after each addition to get a smooth texture.
- → How long does this frosting last?
- Store it in an airtight container in the fridge for up to 10 days. Frosted cakes and cupcakes will stay fresh for 3-4 days when refrigerated.
- → Can I freeze this frosting?
- Yes, you can freeze it for up to 3 months. Thaw it overnight in the fridge and give it a quick mix before using.
- → What if my frosting is too soft to pipe?
- Pop it in the refrigerator for 10-20 minutes to firm up. If it gets too hard, let it sit at room temperature for a few minutes.
- → Can I make this dairy-free?
- You would need to use dairy-free cream cheese and butter substitutes, though the texture and flavor will be different from the original recipe.